Almost everyone has something he or she is working toward…whether it’s finishing (or submitting) that novel, losing 10 pounds, cleaning out the garage, or trying to excercise more/eat healthier.
But how many of us actually reach the goals we set for ourselves? We do reach goals set by our bosses: finish that report by Friday. Because if we don’t, there are consequences…like getting fired. For personal goals, often the only consequence is how unhappy you’re going to be with yourself if you don’t succeed. Many of us have no qualms saying, “I’ll just work out tomorrow,” or “I’d rather do X, I’ll get to that thing Y I want to do another time.”
What makes some of us stick to our goals while others don’t?
–careful planning is the key…breaking a big goal, such as writing a novel, into small, doable steps. Say you’ll complete one page (or 250 words) per day, instead of letting the mind boggle at the thought of finishing an entire book. Or decide to clean one drawer at a time instead of letting the messiness of an entire room overwhelm you and stop you from getting started.
— there’s a discipline gene…what if some people have it and some don’t?
–some want to be the Red Hen, not the other barnyard animals: wishing they could reap the benefit eating the bread without having to participate in the baking
–there are those who enjoy talking about what they will do, rather than actually investing the time and effort into making that dream a reality…and end up failing. The hope of “I could have…” vs. the defeat of “Now I know I can’t.”
–it’s fear of success, how their lives will change if they do succeed.
Are one of these reasons or something else holding you back? Figure out what’s holding you back and take steps to remove or overcome the hindrance(s).
Now you’ve set another goal…will you reach this one?